STRIPPER LINES 101: How to Sell VIPS STEP BY STEP๐ฐ๐
Sep 11, 2024What’s up, you guys! It’s your girl, @itsamberthebaddiexo, and welcome to the The Bad B*tch Academy! ๐๐ค This is the Place for the BEST Stripper Content on the Internet! ๐๐ค So, if you’re a dancer ๐๐ฝ, or thinking about becoming a dancer, and you want to level up your skills ๐, make more money ๐ธ, and have a more effortless time at work ๐, this is the place to be! ๐ฅ๐ Make sure to subscribe to my YouTube channel, and follow my stripper coach account @amberthestrippercoach! ๐ถ๏ธ๐๐ฅ
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How to Talk to Customers
So, I hear from A LOT of you babes that you are having trouble talking to customers. ๐ณ “What do I talk about? How do I start the conversation? He is spending way too much time talking about his job that I don’t give a Fuck about. How do I change the conversation and Make Some Money?” ๐ฐ๐
And that used to be me! I spent so long talking to customers, that I didn’t know what to say, and it kinda stopped me from making money. ๐ When I look at the way I hustle now, so many girls at work see me and go, “How the fuck do you get So Many Dances?? Like, I see you talking to a customer for like less than three minutes, and going to the back for a room! What is the secret, what do you do??” ๐ง๐คฏ
That’s What We’re Going to Dive Into! ๐
And I want to say that it’s not an easy formula. ๐ โ๏ธ You can’t just say, “Okay say this ___, a customer say that _____ here’s how you respond…. “ Because, it doesn’t work that way, there are so many factors to why someone would talk to you. ๐คทโ๏ธ If there’s attraction, and how the energy, and connection, and conversation is. โ๏ธ And that’s why I Really Feel like those stripper “cheat sheets” the ones like, “Here’s exactly what to say…,” they don't fucking work! ๐ขโ๏ธAnd I have had some of you guys tell me that some others out there who are making stripper content, and how their stuff is not helpful! Because it’s not a plug-in formula. ๐ฏ
You can’t just use ONE LINE and have it work for EVERYBODY. So, here are some things to consider when you are looking to talk to customers. And especially if you’re having trouble with this. ๐๐ค
Types of Customers
First things first, there are different types of customers in the club (OBVIOUSLY). ๐คฃ You got your single married men, you got your businessmen, bachelors, bachelorettes, women, couples! So many different types of people come into the strip club! ๐คฏโจ And not one way of selling to them works. ๐ โ๏ธ๐ค They all have a different formula, something you would say to a couple would be VERY DIFFERENT compared to something you would say to someone at his bachelor party. ๐ฒ
Or, if you’re talking to a customer who’s kinda a nerdy, shy type of guy he might react differently than a very horny guy that’s like coming into the club and he’s like, “I need a Hot Girl on my lap!!” ๐ค๐ฅต So, there are different strategies for different types of people.
And it Takes Skill to Work the Room! โจ๐ค What kind of people are there? Who has money? Who is giving signs that they are attracted to me?? Who is attracted to you is a BIG ONE. ๐๐ข Because you can be the prettiest girl EVER, but if you’re going up to a guy who’s just not into you, or you’re not his type, you can use the best lines you have and they may just not work for him. ๐คทโ๏ธ๐ So, understanding how to tell if someone is interested in you, what is his body language, how is he in conversion? Because you can tell when you’re having a conversation and someone kinda wants you to go away! ๐ ๐ข They will be super short, they’re gonna be like “Ugh!” Looking away from you, crossing their arms using closed body language, looking down, not smiling. Those are signs that he’s not into you. ๐คข๐ญ
Or maybe you're talking to someone, and he’ll be like, “Yeah babe, we’ll get a dance! Let’s just have another drink!! Let’s talk some more, I want to get to know you first.” If you are talking to a customer like that, I need your RED FLAGS to be going B *DING DING DING DING DING* ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฉ! There is a good chance that this man will waste your fucking time! ๐คฌ๐คฌ So, knowing how to spot a time waster is going to help. And as you can see, this isn’t just, “Here’s what you’re going to say…” because it’s so much deeper than that. It’s more than just saying the right things, it’s about choosing the right people! โ You gotta know who you’re talking to.
You have to know how to read someone’s body language! Once you do, and you see that they are a good match for you, how do you initiate that conversation? ๐ง What are those topics? Are you walking up to them, very slothed and grumpy like, “Hey…How’s it goin’…? How are you?” Oh My GOD!! ๐ณ๐จ When I hear girls saying that I’m just like, “What are you doing???” โ๏ธSeriously, “How are you? How was your day? What have you been up to before you came here? Hey sir, how was your weekend?” These are all questions that don't belong in a strip club y’all!! โ๐ซ Like, I get it, it’s an introduction. But It’s Not Going to Get You Anywhere. It’s not going to STEER the conversation to the Sexy Side (AKA THE MONEY) ๐ถ๏ธ๐ฒ. Because girl, you’re acting like a COWORKER. “Uh Hey John, how was your weekend with the family? How was your kid’s 3rd birthday party?” ๐
That’s not what they are at the strip club for! ๐จ So, be smart about the conversations you’re having and how you’re starting those conversations. And I always say this, “You’re not at a bar, you’re not a girl next door, you’re not his neighbor in the driveway.” Because you are one of the SEXIEST and most BEAUTIFUL women that he has ever seen!! ๐ โจLet That Sink In!โจOne of the most beautiful women he’s Ever Seen!! Why the fuck would you be asking him about the weather??? ๐คฃ No! You are at a STRIP CLUB, you are here for the fantasy! ๐งโ๏ธ๐ถ๏ธ
Focus on Your Money
I know when I was a baby stripper, I used to feel so proud to be like, “I’m just a normal girl who happens to be hot! Like I’m just like everyone else! You might see me at the grocery store, I’m just a normal, cute girl! And we can talk about ANYTHING.” ๐ป๐ Right, BUT I missed out on so much money because I Was Not Focusing On The Money ๐ต! FOCUS ON YOUR MONEY. You’re not there to make friends!! ๐จ๐ต
You don’t really care about his life, you don’t care about his name, or his kids, or his job! I mean DO CARE, but when WE GET TO THE VIP! PLEASE, tell me more! ๐ ๐ค๐ถ๏ธ “I want all of the details, how did you get into this line of work? What are you doing? But, if you didn’t pay me a Single DOLLAR, I don’t fucking care! Let’s talk about it in the back! Right! The more you pay me, the more I want to listen!” ๐ฅฐ๐คญ
So, remember that ladies, you’re not there to make friends! You’re not there to find a new boyfriend, You’re There to Make Fucking Money! ๐ค๐ฐ
And don’t take objections so lightly, or maybe I should say, Take Objections Lightly. Because They Don’t Mean Anything. Customers will say no for a Million Different Reasons. But none of them matter, because you can change their minds! ๐ ๐ And I still sometimes struggle with this at times, because like a customer would say “no” and I give up Too Easily. But for the times I try to push, I want them to say “No” FIVE TIMES before I decide to leave. 5๏ธโฃ๐ โ๏ธ And if they say, “No, I’m good. Maybe later.” And you walk away, you’re losing money! You have FOUR more opportunities to ask him, and to change his mind, and to negotiate, and to bargain, and to milk every fucking dollar you can out of this man! ๐ฏ๐ต
Your time is money, and if you’re investing time in someone don’t give up so easily. Don’t be shy, don’t be afraid to be like, “Look baby, I know you’re saying, “No” right now, but I’m Sorry! I literally cannot walk away until I have my ass grinding on your hard dick! ๐ถ๏ธ๐ I want to walk away so Bad but I Can’t! Like, there’s literally no way that can, so let’s make this easier for the both of us! Let’s just Go before I literally have to Pick You Up and carry you into the VIP in my 8-inch STRIPPER HEELS ๐ . I look tiny, but I will fucking DO IT.”
See?? It’s playful, it’s not too pushy, like “DON’T WASTE MY TIME! HOW DARE YOU TALK TO ME FOR 20 MINUTES AND NOT SPEND MONEY ON ME MOTHERFUCKER!” ๐คฎ๐ท Like damn, some girls are just rude about it! And I get it, But there are ways you can be fun and playful and you can add your own personality! WHILE, still kinda applying pressure, and while being like “Yes, I get that you are saying “No,” but Sorry I Don’t Take No For An Answer! That's not how things work here, my bad! But you kinda have to say, “YES.” I don’t wanna have to force you, but like if you like to be dominated, I WILL.” So let’s go!” ๐๐ถ๏ธ๐ฐ
And it fucking Works ladies! It works, and it makes them laugh so often. Like, imagine a guy who is 6’2” and my tiny self being like, “I will carry you to the VIP.” And they're like, “Okay damn, she wants it, fine! Okay maybe we’ll do a few songs and we’ll do something” โณ๐ค So, Don’t Give Up So Easily, apply that pressure. You can turn those “No’s” into a “Yes.”
Like this one customer, and honestly y’all I ate an edible. ๐๐I was SO HIGH, but like in the BEST WAY. I talked to this guy, and he was like “No, I don’t want a dance.” We were standing next to each other, I straight up stood up, I stood in front of him, and I was like, “But baaaaby, how can you say “No” to meeeeee?? And I was bent over all of the way. And I started grinding on him right on the floor, and I turned around and I grabbed his hands. And I put them on my ass and I grabbed his fucking dick and I said, “WE are going to the VIP!” And I squeezed his dick and said, “Your dick is saying, “YES,” your wallet is saying “YES,” so let’s fucking go.” ๐ณ๐ถ๏ธ๐ฎ๐จ And he got like TWO HOURS with me! And at first he said “No,” all I had to do was seduce him! For like 30 seconds! ๐ ๐ถ๏ธ๐คญ
Use your SEXINESS to your ADVANTAGE. ๐๐ Use your Titties to Change MINDS, okay? It’s possible, it’s easier than you think as well! And I see so many of you guys have questions like, “How do I do it? What do I say? I need help, I have more potential to make more money than I am making right now.” I totally get you, I was there for a while. I was plateauing at like $700, sometimes I made more but consistently my average was about $700. Which I AM grateful for, that is AMAZING money. But don’t forget! Sometimes, we are making more money than doctors! ๐คฏ๐งSo, be grateful for whatever you make! BUT, if you know you have the potential to make More, DING DING DING DING DING, I’ve got a little mini-course for you guys! ๐ข๐ค
Let’s Talk Money
Let’s Talk Money, Honey is going to teach you exactly what you Need to Know to thrive as a dancer. ๐๐ฝ๐ถ๏ธ Especially when it comes to your interaction with customers. Like I said, there’s no ‘One Size Fits All’ approach! There are no lines that you can universally use! And there are so many strategies for you to understand, to really help you go from where I was (let’s say $700 average to about $2000 average is where I’m at in a good season).
I will say it gets slow as fuck in the clubs sometimes, sometimes I had only three guys come in at the clubs. I’m kinda discarding that because that’s not my problem! Like that’s just the economy. But usually, my average is around $2000 a night, and it’s easy! And it’s not with getting 20 dances, it’s with a couple of people only! ๐ ๐ต๐ฏ
So, that is EXACTLY what I’m teaching you in Let’s Talk Money, Honey! And I want to go over Exactly what we will be learning in this course. First things first, I going to teach you all the different types of strip club customers, and How To Sell To Them! ๐ฅ What their desires are, why they are coming into a club. Like I said, you’re not going to use the same lines for a woman who’s there for a bachelorette party vs. a guy who just broke up with his girlfriend and is lonely. ๐ฅต๐ข Two different approaches, two different kinds of customers. When you begin to understand the psychology of different people, you’re going to have such an easier time! ๐ฏโ
Work the Room
Then I’m talking about How to Work the Room! ๐๐ How to spot a customer that has money, how to take notice of who’s into you, who’s been there, who you should approach next. How to seduce people while you’re working the room. ๐ถ๏ธ๐ค This Is a Big One! Just because a customer is talking to another girl, that don’t mean shit! That don’t mean nothing baby! ๐ฏ So, how do you seduce somebody, while they’re still making up their minds? Imma teach you that, because that will make it So Much Easier if he is being seduced from Afar and you come up and say, “Hey baby I see that you have been checking me out. Like, let’s just go! I know you want me, I can see that your dick is hard from all the way across the room! Like, I’m finally here! Let’s just do this!” ๐๐๐ถ๏ธ
TRUST ME! It skips the conversation stage entirely. Imagine, if you didn’t have to talk to a single person. ๐คฉ๐ You can be Sexy, and be Vibin’, and Be Dancing and Enjoying Your Time, while INTENTIONALLY SEDUCING EVERYBODY AROUND YOU. And having your pick without spending any time time talking to them! ๐ โ๏ธ๐ต
I Got the Tips
I’m going to talk about How to Spot a Time Waster! โ๏ธ๐กThis is going to save you So Much Time, and MAKE YOU MORE MONEY by knowing the Signs of Who is going to Completely Waste Your Time, and help you Choose Better Customers. ๐ฏ๐ธ I’m going to talk about How to Read Body Language, so you know if a customer is into you or not! Once again, so you DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME. ๐ฅณ Then we get to the Good Stuff, which is Conversation Starters and How to Ask for Lap Dances! ๐๐ฐI have a whole PDF cheetsheet you can use, where you can just plug-n-play different, actual lines that can work for you. Once again, I created this stuff to be customizable for you so that you can take my notes and make them your own. ๐๐ Include your own personality, and make your own fucking money! Know how to steer the conversation in the way you Want it to go! โก๏ธ๐
Now, I also included a video where this took me from $700 nights to over $2000 nights. And this video is called, ‘Don’t Make Mistakes with $20 Dances!!!’ ๐ โ๏ธ๐ธ Because so many of us (me included still!) will be doing the most for $20! ๐๐ซ How The Fuck do you expect someone to spend $1000 on you when you do the SAME THING FOR $20?! ๐๐คทโ๏ธ This is an Incredible Lesson, a Short, Powerful video, and This Will Change the Game for You! ๐ฏ๐ต And to help you turn So Many Single Songs into Hour Long VIPs! Because so many girls struggle. “Yeah, I can get a lot of topless and nude dances, But selling a VIP is too hard for me!” That video is going to be Game Changing For You! ๐๐ฏ
I also talk about How to Handle Objections, and it’s a two-part video. Part one is all about the mindset. ๐ง ๐ How to not let it get you down, or ruin your night, or affect your confidence. And part two is all about the sales! So, how to turn that initial “No” into a “Yes,” how to apply pressure, and how to change his mind! ๐ ๐ต Because men can change their minds, and You have the power to change his mind! That is what that lesson is all about! ๐๐๐
The Next video is about how to Ask for More! ๐ธ๐ฅAsk for more dances, more tips, more drinks, more Everything. Asking for more, more, more, More, MORE! So many girls are like, “Cool! That was our one song, thank you for your time, and have a good night!” Or, “Okay cool, our hour is over!” But you can ask for more! So that one is going to be amazing for you! ๐ฅฐ๐
I talk about What the Fuck to Do for an HOUR in the VIP because some people are like, “An hour? That’s so long! What do I DO?” โ๏ธ
And then I talk about How to Get Regulars! How to get people to Keep on Coming Back! To keep spending money on you, and to keep that consistent income. ๐ต๐ธ๐ค Because when there are times with a slow season, having regulars is Literally the Difference between going home with $0 to $500! So having regulars is SO SO IMPORTANT. โ๏ธ
So In TOTAL, that is 20 videos (Over THREE HOURS OF CONTENT) that you guys get in this course! And once again, these are all BIG MONEY-MAKING TIPS. ๐ค๐ This Shit is Just Going to Have You Bank Rolling in Fucking Dollars! EVERY NIGHT. CONSISTENTLY. Regardless of what kind of Club you work in, regardless of what Shifts you work in, or What Countries You Work In. ๐ I used these tips in California โ๏ธ, Las Vegas ๐ฐ, in Florida ๐, Hawaii ๐โ๏ธ, Amsterdam ๐ดโ๏ธ, in New Zealand ๐, and it has worked across the board Everywhere!
So, if you are serious about making more money, if you are serious about just Blowing the Fuck Up and Raising Your Average this course is a MUST BUY. ๐จ๐จ๐จ
So that's it, you guys! Make sure to sign up for one of the Best Upgrades, Let’s Talk Money, Honey Here! I love you Bad Bitches and Can’t Wait to hear about how the Tips Help You! Muah! ๐๐